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The principles of finding love and building your dream career are more interconnected than you think! Part 2

October 08, 20243 min read

How to Navigate Both Love and Career Like a Boss – Part 2

 

In our last blog we talked about how finding love and landing your dream career are more alike than you think! 

You are likely already seeing how the way you approach love mirrors the way you navigate your career. Just like in relationships, knowing what you want, setting boundaries, and walking away from what doesn’t serve you is essential in the professional world too. 

In Part 2, we’re giving you more insight as we unpack the emotional baggage that might be holding you back, show you when it’s time to walk away (yes, even from that "safe" job), and remind you that having it all isn’t just possible—it’s your birthright.

Let’s get real, dig deeper, and figure out how you can thrive in both love and your career. Ready? Let’s do this.

1. Deal With Your Baggage

We all carry some form of baggage—whether it’s from past relationships or past jobs. Maybe you’ve stayed too long in a relationship out of fear of being alone, or you’ve held onto a job that wasn’t right because it felt safe. Either way, it’s time to unpack that baggage.

In both love and your career, unresolved issues can sabotage your happiness and hold you back from real fulfillment. During our 21-Day Challenge, we encourage you to dig deep, identify these patterns, and release them. Ready to let go of fear, self-doubt, or perfectionism? Do it. This emotional freedom is key to attracting the right partner and the right job.

2. Know When to Walk Away

In both love and work, there comes a time when you have to ask yourself: is this still serving me? Whether it’s a toxic relationship or a dead-end job, you need to recognize when it’s time to walk away. Sticking around out of comfort or fear of the unknown does you no good.

Just like you wouldn’t settle for a partner who treats you poorly, don’t settle for a career that leaves you unfulfilled. Trust yourself to know when it’s time to move on—and have the courage to take that step.

3. Believe You Can Have It All

It’s a common myth that you can’t have both a thriving career and a fulfilling relationship. We’re here to tell you that’s simply not true. In our 21-Day Challenge, we stress the importance of believing in your ability to have it all. Whether it’s finding your soulmate or landing your dream job, you don’t have to choose between personal and professional success.

The key? Knowing what you want, sticking to your non-negotiables, and refusing to settle. When you’re aligned with your values, clear about your boundaries, and open in your communication, success in both areas becomes inevitable.

Ready to Find Both Love and Career Fulfillment?

The principles of finding love and building your dream career are more interconnected than you think. You have the power to create meaningful relationships and pursue a career that lights you up—all it takes is clarity, communication, and the confidence to never settle for less than you deserve.

If you’re ready to dig deeper and unlock your full potential, join our 21-Day Challenge to transform the way you approach love and work. Together, we’ll flip the script on outdated mindsets and help you create the life—and relationships—you truly deserve.

Let’s make this your year of having it all.

 

 

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Jen and Kim

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