Let Go of the Perfect Picture: Embrace the Unexpected for a Fabulous Love Life

Ever hear those stories about women who just meet someone in a parking lot, in line at

the bookstore or online and they just click and fall in love? So often we hear from these

women that they just let go of the idea of what Mr. Right looked like and what he had to

be like for them and turned their focus on themselves.

All those ideas you have about the perfect guy for you – his looks, occupation and

everything you decided would be just perfect for you – we suggest you let go of them. If

you think of the tall, dark and handsome guy, you may just miss the Mr. Right for you

who isn’t tall, has light or no hair and is still handsome, nonetheless.

Focus on the relationship you want to have and who you want to be in it with. What will

you and your man be doing? Where will you travel? What romantic getaway will you be

running away to for the weekend? Will you be hiking in the mountains or swimming in

the ocean? What kind of restaurant will you be toasting in as you celebrate your

romance?

Too often when we are looking for Mr. Right, we concentrate so heavily on what he’s

going to be like that we get attached to him before we’ve even met him and forget what

we’re going to be like when we meet him.

Perhaps by holding fast to an ideal look for your Mr. Right, maybe you’ve been

sheltering yourself from the real relationship you say you want. Check this out in your

own world. When you make something so perfect that it’s seemingly impossible to find,

you may use this as a mechanism to protect yourself from getting what you say you really

want.

In fact, for some women, actually finding Mr. Right is a shocking thought because …

what if he really does exist? What will happen to the lifestyle you know now and perhaps

love?

Let go of all the preconceived notions you have about him and how he’ll affect your life.

Enjoy the journey of finding out who you want to be in the relationship you’ve dreamed

of and set yourself up for the successful relationship you want by getting clear about you and

what you want.

Know that you can have it all – the fabulous career and the great romance.

And just let go.