We have heard some great stories about how women have met the men of their dreams during the holiday season because they actually stopped working and started embracing the holiday activities in their area.
Here are some suggestions for how to get out and celebrate the holiday cheer while raising your spirits and looking for your Mr. Right:
1) Join efforts to feed the hungry in your area. If you enjoy volunteering and if you have an interest in sharing the abundance you have with those less fortunate, donate your time and find activities in your area where you can feed the homeless, elderly, sick or those who can’t afford to provide a delicious meal for themselves and their loved ones this holiday season. Check with your local food bank and other organizations for information and events. You never know – you might just meet him while serving mashed potatoes at the soup kitchen while he serves up the turkey with all the trimmings.
2) Pay attention to invitations to events from organizations and groups you belong to. Instead of passing on the holiday gatherings offered by organizations and networking groups you participate in, take time out to celebrate the season with those you’ve done business with. Toast a year of great business success and see how your relationships here have served you well. Take clues from them and put the qualities you enjoy in these relationships into your Dear God Letter to help you describe the one you want to build with the man of your dreams.
3) Look for flyers and announcements about events and parties at your gym, club, yoga studio or other recreational center. Perhaps there are parties that are available to you as a member of your gym or other exercise clubs. This is a terrific way to meet men who are also members and like the same activities you do. Attending these parties can be fun! You don’t have to stay long. Grab a girlfriend and make it a great girls’ night out. You might just meet men you’ve never seen at the gym…until now.
Find ways to get out of the office and out of the house and into the holiday season and spirit. All work and no fun makes it harder to find him. Pick one activity you love and go for it!
Your Mr. Right may walk right into your life and light up your holiday spirits this season – and beyond.
It’s your time to have it all, isn’t it?