Maybe you are one of those people who just can’t seem to get into the holiday spirit. You would rather stay inside all day then take part of all the hoopla. That is perfectly fine. Just don’t stay home sulking, stay home and be productive. Use this down time to journal and highlight your years successes. Write down everything big and small. Think about your favorite moments of the year, what were you doing? See if you can find the activities that make you smile. This is a great exercise to remind you of all the things you have accomplished.
This is also the perfect time to clean your closets and clean out the clutter in your house and make room for new clothes, new opportunities and a new man. If you are holding on to anything of boyfriends past reflect on why you are holding on to the object then check in with yourself and see how you are feeling and decide to get rid of it. New door usually only open when old doors close. Go out and enjoy yourself or read a great romance novel, or go to a chick flick, they can help you visualize the type of relationship you really want.
Above all be yourself and do activities that would comfort your spirit.